A Question of Balance
Social Media is a double-edged sword. It simultaneously informs and isolates its users. Studies have shows that, despite its name, social media adversely affects the quality of offline, face-to-face interaction. In fact, a new study from the University of Michigan by psychologist Ethan Kross shows how social media contributes to loneliness, rather than making us feel connected.
Kross’ study concludes, “On the surface, Facebook provides an invaluable resource for fulfilling the basic human need for social connection. Rather than enhancing well-being, however, these findings suggest that Facebook may undermine it.” Kross’ study demonstrates that the more time people spend on social media, the less face-to-face interactions they engage in and the poorer the quality of it. On the other hand, according to Author of “Smarter Thank You Think,” Clive Thompson, we shouldn’t fear the likes of Facebook and Twitter. Instead, we should embrace social media because it is helping us to achieve things we couldn’t have done before.
As he argues in his recent book “Smarter Than You Think,” bouncing ideas, thoughts, and sharing knowledge can boost our brains. Thompson says, the Internet in the 21st Century has become a humongous idea-making machine. Never before have we been able to disseminate our ideas with so many people, all over the world. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSi5NdQClDg Ultimately, the Internet, specifically social media, is apparently making us a more intelligent, albeit, socially inept bunch. Jonathan Safran Foer said it best in a piece for the New York Times, titled “How Not to Be Alone,” which was an adaption of his Commencement Speech for Middlebury College in 2013. He summarized the role of social media, stating, “Technology celebrates connectedness, but encourages retreat.” His article opens with a story of a stranger crying in public. He explains that he was faced with a choice: to intervene or not to intervene. Foer explains that it is easiest to “retreat into the scrolling names of one’s contact list, or whatever one’s favorite iDistraction happens to be.”
Foer notes despite the fact that “communication technologies began as diminished substitutes for an impossible activity,” we now prefer the diminished substitutes. The problem, according to Foer, with accepting or preferring the diminished substitute of interacting via social media, is that we “become diminished substitutes. People who become used to saying little become used to feeling little.” However, Foer makes an important point: “It’s not an either/or — being “anti-technology” is perhaps the only thing more foolish than being unquestioningly “pro-technology” — but a question of balance that our lives hang upon.”
Clip from Jonathan Safran Foer’s Commencement Address at Middlebury College In conclusion, social media is creating a well-informed, intelligent generation of socially awkward introverts. However, the problem is not social media, but rather our use and habituation of the social media platforms. It is our responsibility, as Foer highlights, to balance our use of social media in order to achieve equilibrium between dissemination of information and sociability.














